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Q: One of my bestfriends Asked the guy that i liked out. Well i was really upset about it and she told me to stop acting like a child. She knows that i really like him and have for the past month.

He ended up telling her that he wont go out with her. But shes not the type of girl to give up when she likes someone. She will pester him till the end. And i dont want to hear her talking about him constantly. And i really dont want her liking him i know sounds rude but she gets a boyfriend and wont talk to him for like 2 weeks and then decided well i dont like him anymore.

I know its not actually a question i just need some advice on what i should do. 17 f

----- She knew that i liked him because i told her like 3 weeks ago.
Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her you felt betrayed when she went behind you back and asked him out; that she should have let you know, at least. If you had already asked him out and been unfortunately declined, than there wouldn't be a reason to deny her the right... however, she, being a best friend, should have told you, should have let you know.

If she can't sit down and talk candidly with you about these sort of things, which you should, than perhaps the friendship isn't as strong as believed.

I have never asked him out. But when i pick a seat on the bus he always sit behind me or in the seat across from me even tho there is like 7 empty seats.

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