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Q: How do I get over being as self concious as I am? It's like I refuse to sign up for all the homecoming events or dance at the pep rallies. I'm really not a shy person, just a little unsure of myself. I constantly tell myself to stop caring, but at times I feel like I look majorly stupid. I usually could act like I'm fearless, but I'm tired of acting. I really want to be secure with all of my actions!! Is there any piece of advice that I could replay in my head that would make me stop with the concern?
Sometimes I feel just like you do. But I always tell myself that it`s okay to be myself. There are many people who would like you for who you are and you have to always keep that in mind. Just gain confidence for yourself. Don`t put yourself down, because this is who are this is who you`ve been and this is who you will be. It`s a matter of learning to love yourself befor others can love you :)

Great advice, thank you!!

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