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ok so i got my self in a siruation where...i just cheated on my boyfriend...and before that night i was a virgin and now im not. and like. i dont know what i shoudl do. I didnt really want to have sex with the guy...but i was in a situation where i had to be sorta quite and i was saying no...but i dont think he heard me or maybe he just didnt care. but like. he didnt use protection and im not on birth control. and im pretty sure he pulled out before...but like. i just dont know what to do and im freaking out.

awe.tell him you were raped.
because it sounds to me like it.

if you say no and dont want to heck even if you say no and do want to its rape.
you have to agree to it.
trust me ive been thru the same situation.
i would tell him you were raped.
before the word gets out and comes back to him and he will think you wanted to because he will here what people are saying.


so tell him.
maybe cry a little
but yeah.

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