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my boyfriend is in basic training for the army and i wont get to see him for a few months. i am dieing. i miss him so much. i try to fill my time with my friends. But it still doesnt work. i cry everynight. how do i make this feeling go away.

There is no incorrect nor correct answer. First of all you need to tell him you love him constantly, because once hes gone your not going to see him and you'd want him to always remember you telling him that youd always be thinking of him. Also, there is not exactly any specific way to make you feel good about yourself and make your feelings go away. You cannot just ignore your feelings, they are their for a reason. I personally like to write poetry writing isn't exactly my best skill(i have a D is english) but when I just express myself on the paper the words just flow out naturally. Write one each day, it will never cure your desire to be with him but you need to let those feelings out. a couple days before he leaves give him your poems. He most likely isn't going to decide to bail on the army after all his training but once he reads your feelings (if he truly cares for you)then he will always remember them throughout his career in the Army. Support him going. It isn't easy to fight for your country and constantly have people begging you to not go. But someone has to fight for this country and if its not him, who will it be if everyone in the US said im not going to give back to all the freedom they gave us? no one everyone would have things to do. (sorry got a lil into it)
just tryyyy writing even if it seems way outta your skill field experiment and if its not writing, draw anyway to artistically express yourself. Hope I could help a little, oh and never try to fill in time with your friends because then you think more about him because you think your replacing him. Again i tried my best hope something clicked with your issue.

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