hi
im 14 years old..& yess a girl((hence the MISShelpful))
basically im on this site to use some of my free time helping other ppl figure out their problems.
usually i can relate & thats how i give my advice.
so..ask me whatever, whenever :]
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I don't know what to do and I can't cope so please help me if you can...
The truth is...nobody likes me. I'm not saying that in a 'feeling sorry for myself' way. It's fact. I work in an office where I overhear people bitching about me, where people lie about me and where they arrange nights out and I'm the only one not invited.
I can't do anything about it really because none of it can be proven and my Manager already believes the lies that have gone round about me because he's confronted me about them. There's nobody above him I can go to and I can't leave because I need the money and having looked around, I know I can't get the same anywhere else.
I can't seem to do anything right. Work is bad enough. I try SO hard and have done hours and hours of overtime, which I even refused to accept payment for because of personal reasons but I still mistakes. Constantly.
To make matters worse, I'm a complete failure in all other aspects of my life. I can't keep our home clean. I can't do a whole host of other things I should be able to do and the only things I ever really work at, I fail at and I'm so fed up of being such a loser and a failure that all I can seem to do is cry right now and not stop.
My boyfriend tries so hard to help me cope but I feel so miserable all the time and there's nothing anyone can do because the problem is with ME.
So, I guess my question is, how can I be happier? How can I stop feeling so bad about everything I seem to suck at?? And how do I find people who care about me, because other than my boyfriend, I don't think anyone does. (link)
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Consider joining a group where you can talk to others who feel the same way as you. Also regarding the office thing try to find yer faults (im prtty sure there aren't THAT many) and try to work on correcting them. Rememeber that you are loved and yer family and friends are ready to talk to you when you are ready and to give you advice!
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