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How do I go about asking my bf if he is bisexual? I've seen a lot of signs that he could be and I am curious to know. It wouldn't change anything between us and I think it could strengthen our relationship especially since I am bisexual. He was picked on A LOT when he was younger for being gay (which he definitely isn't). I really don't want to hurt his feelings. If I ask him if he is bisexual he'll probably get really worked up and defensive. He's a very emotionally run person. When I ask him questions he's embarassed about he avoids them for as long as possible. When he finally answers he goes ballistic. I don't want him to feel like I'm accusing him of anything or that I believe that he is bisexual. I really have no idea if he is or not. I am going to have to ask at some point if he doesn't tell me and I want it to go as smoothly as possible. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
20/f, 21/m
It's not your question to ask. He may be trying to figure out the answer to that question right now as well - not everyone is as self-aware about their sexuality as others. It's up to him when he'll decide to share that information with his friends and loved ones. Even if he is bisexual, he still loves you, and that's what's important at this point.
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Thanks, you're right, but when I can't take it anymore and end up bringing it up, I would like to know how I might be able to make it go more smoothly
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