Hi,My name is Beck and I am 23 years old. I am currently attending a RMIT dental school in Melbourne Australia to get my qualifications. I have been with my partner for nearly 6 years now and have been married for 1 of those 6 years. I love to help people in any way that I can. Please don't be afraid to ask me a question.
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Age: 23
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okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great one. but this year i had the feeling that he still liked me because he would flirt with me all the time. but then he is now dating another girl who i really do not believe things will work out with. but my question is that do you think i should tell him my feelings toward him? im not sure because he is dating a girl who he seems to like but i really want to let him know how i feel. and the girl he is dating is one of my semi-good friends too so i wouldnt want to hurt her either. but i dont know. i just want to know if there is a chance of us ever being together. but i dont know how i would talk to him about this. i need advice on what i would say. or the fact that i should even say anything at all. im just so confused.
it would be greatly apprciated if someone would give me some advice on this. it means alot to me. i will rate high too if you give me some good advice.
thanks,
juliaaaa (link)
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Hi julia,
I suggest not letting him know how you feel. Since you have known him for such a long time and you are pretty much best mates, telling him how you feel would ruin your friendship with him. Even if you did date him, if you broke up it would become rather awkward for you both to talk to each other.
I hope I have helped
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Rating: 5
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thanks for the advice. it helped. :)
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