Question
my friend, lets just call her stacy and i used to be inseperable. we were best friends, we would hang out everyday, cuz we were neighbors so we could. anyway, lately shes been hanging out with a popular girl, lets call her lily. so stacy has been hanging out with lily, and its really sad cuz she never hangs out with me anymore. and a couple weeks ago, she said she didnt want to be friends anymore because i was "clingy" and i wasnt clingy at all! but now we are kind of friends i guess, i mean, we talk and stuff. bt i just looked at her AIM profile and im not in it she has all her other friends except me. and shes not friends with any of her old ones, except me and i guess were not bestfriends anymore. and not she is really popular, and she ignores me during school, and lily is more important to her than i am. and, shes just not the same old stacy anymore. i want my old stacy back! i miss her so much! please! i need help!
Answer
Honestly, that's messed up. Don't waist your time on Stacy. She obviously wants to be popular and all that stupid crap, and my guess is, she think's she's too cool to talk to you anymore. Popularity isn't everything, I've realized that. It's better to have friends that care about you, and how you feel, and most important with being friends you should always have a good time. Don't worry about her, go out and meet other people. Just make sure you don't turn around and be rude to her after you stop talking to her, be as nice as you possibly can whenever nessacary. You know what I mean? You don't have to talk to her, but you should be nice to her, it shows people that you're a good person. I'm sorry you're friend has changed, I wish it could go back to the way it was, but you've got to realize that people will change, even if you don't like it, and friends also come and go. It's life I guess. Good luck hunny.
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thanks for the great advice! you've really helped me out a lot. i rated you a five cuz it was awesome advice.
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