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I am a STRONG supporter of the homosexuals and transvestites. My best friend is homosexual indeed and he will always remain my best friend.. I'm 14/f by the way. Anyways. I know that about 80% of the people in our school are homophobic and about 50% of them will harm my homosexual friends mentally and sometimes physically. I myself am bisexual but I haven't come out of the closet yet. Not even to my best friend. The thing is that I've lost several friends now since I declared my homosexual friend my best friend. I don't mind because I know that they are too shallow to match up to me. But the problem is that people are starting to tease me and such at school. For instance they ask "Do you uygs do it, you suck him, he's your slave whore, ew, you're friends with a gay guy" etc. It's been going on a lot lately now that I've entered high school. The other day, when I got off the bus, some guys decided to hassal me and one rammed into my chest with his shoulder. I believe that his actions were the result of me being friends with mybest friend (They were teasing him and me on the bus on the way home before I got off). Now I don't know what to do because I know that this situation is bound to escalate to worse situations. I don't and will NEVER drop my homosexual friends. EVER. But the thing is that I'm always hassaled by homophobic people at school and I just don't know what to do about them. (link)
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Well hun i absolutely know how you feel!!! I'm 16/f and yes I have a girlfriend. Well first of all let me tell you that what you're experiencing isn't right because I respect your courage and determination. As a bisexual, I put up with crap everyday too. I dont just want to say that you get used to it, but you kind of do. If you don't let it bother you, then eventually they'll stop. They won't find it fun anymore to tease you or your friend. Just try to stay away from them for now. And if they give you crap, just ignore it. I know that doesn't sound very helpful but it will work!! Good luck and if u need any more help with this or gf's or anything feel free to im me...at rikatree2375..i'd luv to help ya some more!
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wooo i'm tlaking to you right now =P
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