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Q: how do you get guys you dont have classes with to notice you..btw im kinda shy, so i have guy trouble..how do you know when one likes you?? because i like guys,but i never know when to leave them alone, or keep flirting...please help with detail..im kind of scared to get into a relationship..so its harder for me..if i like a guy, how do i let him know..what do i say??help me.
Well the way you can get guys that you dont have classes with to notice you is that if you see them after school or sometime not in school you can be like hey ive seen you around school or something like that and you can just try and talk to him about school at first and then be like hey your pretty cute. or something like that. even if you are shy it might be hard cause im the same way but i took adivce i got once and took a risk and it worked out very well for me.


When a guy likes you he could be a total asshole to you and like act like he doesnt like you and he could get mad really easily and make fun of you alot.
Or
He could kind of be quiet around you and kind of shy seeming. If you know hes not the very shy type and he acts shy around you than that might mean he likes you.
Or
He could always want to talk to you and always try to be around you. Like he would find an excuse to talk to you or be around you or hang out with you or something like that.

ALSO if he smiles alot when your around him and if you see him in the hall or somewhere else he gives you a hugee smile.. or if like he always is poking you or tickleing you or putting his arm around you or hugging you.. or little things like that or if he like tries to make you smile alot.


and about the flirting thing its good to flirt but you dont want to come on too strong.. you want to like kind of laugh and make eye contact and like hit the guy lightly and laugh.. you know... but then like dont overdue it. like you want to leave the guy wanting more of you.

and a good way to let a guy know that you like him is maybe not actually come right out and tell him that you like him. i mean that is one way. but another way is to just kind of give him little hints. like oh i know someone who likes you. and just kind of give him hints.

Or you could just come right out and say i like you.

Or you could have your friend tell him which is a good way to go about it espically if your shy.

hope this helped
and good luckk

♥ kayla

thanks!! ♥

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