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Hello my name is Chrissie and a lot of people call me the latest Dear Abby. I give advice to anyone who needs it whether it be friends, family, or strangers. I've been giving advice on the internet for a little while now and just recently I've found this. So please feel free to ask me anything. I'm not just an advice columnist but I'm a friend :-).
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Age: 14
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my friend & my other friend, are in a HUGE fight. The one girl.. lets call her Candy, ahha. well here, let me explain a little bit of her past before i continue...

She dated a guy, named steve. well, they broke up.. like last week. So, now steve, likes me & candys bff, Cassandra. & cassandra said i don't know. So, now candy is all mad at cassandra, because cassandra likes candy & was saying all this stuff like.."its not fair, i've never even had a boyfriend & you & stacy (me) have had like 10." so we were like, umm ok.

So then, is she technically saying that she only wants to date him for a boyfriend?

& thenn anyways, also cassandra talks behind candys back like a TON. i mean like all the time. so we told her so now she says she can't trust casssandra anymore.
& all this stuff.

i feel bad that they are not going to be friends anymore. because candy is usually a total pusshover & shes pretty serious about this.. soo, is there anything i can say or do?


&.. about cassandra wanting to date steve.. well, i was thinking, "all is fair in love & war." even though were only in 8th grade, does that nesscarily still like count? because like candy & cassandra aren't very like... mature, mature. i'm like smarter then them when it comes to these things.. but i don't know exactly what to say for this one.

so any help, on like any tiny bit of this, would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
Hey. Yes, this is waaaay too much drama for eighth grade over some guy. I don't understand why Candy is mad at Cassandra if her and Steve already broke up. It sounds as if she's jealous to me so give Cassandra a break because she's right, it's not fair. Now if Steve mistreated Candy then yes, Cassandra should be like screw him he was mean to my best friend. Oh but the fact that Cassandra talks about Candy isn't right either but maybe she doesn't understand why she can't go out with Steve. Just don't talk about either one and you will be fine. Try to bring them back together and have them both apologize to eachother. I hope this works, please give me feedback my friend :-).
Chrissie


Rating: 5
thanks.. & thats hardly drama at all, in my school. haha




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