Member Since: September 4, 2006
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i know this is kinda long, but if you're gay [female or male], please read.
just so you know, i'm 15/f
lately i've been thinking about dating a girl.
i went through a short bi-curious thing in sixth grade [im in highschoool now], but i found this girl. and she's really cute and amazing. and i honestly would date her. i know women are just generally attractive, but i really like her. the thing is i'm willing to try being with a girl. but i would want them to know that i'm not sure with the whole gay thing. the girl i like is bi, but she knows for a fact she is. i think i would enjoy being with a girl emotionally and physically. i'm trying to figure out if this is just a phase or what. i'm confused as hell.
what should i do? (link)
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I'm a 22 year old bi girl, and I went through almost exactly the same thing when I was your age.
My advice? You should go for it - fuck what everybody thinks! Sexuality is fluid - we fall in love with people not their gender/sexuality.
IMO we're all bi-sexual, it's just that most people won't admit it to themselves.
Tell your gal that you're confused - she's bi herself, so she'll understand. Just give it a try - you might be gay/straight/bi whatever, but you won't know unless you give it a go.
And you don't have to decide right now - if ever- if you prefer guys to girls. You fall in love with whoever you wanna be with, regardless. Hope it goes well!:)
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