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I joined Advicenators, because I have a knack for giving people advice. I've been through a lot, including mental and physical abuse, deaths of family members, friends that betray, and more. I help everyone, and I'll always give advice to anyone that asks for it.
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16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...

Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..

Please help!
-Jason

If he didn't know that he had it, then you can't really be mad at him.
But if he did know, then you have every right to be mad at him.
Don't be mad at yourself, because he lied (knowingly or not) to you.

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(Rating: 2) You're just repeating what was already said.. thanks tho
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