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I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do? (link)
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talk to both of them about this individually. ask them if anything is going on. they may say yes or no. if you want to, tell them that you don't want this to go on and that it is unacceptable for them to be flirting with each other. he is in a relationship and he has made a commitment. she is one of your best friends and shouldnt be acting this way around your guy. he is your boyfriend and if she wants to flirt, go find another guy. be honest with each of them and dont jump to conclusions about them having an attraction, but dont let the entire thing go. do what your heart tells you. hope this helps! ♥ arlyn
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