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Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
Member Since: August 1, 2006
Answers: 46
Last Update: November 25, 2006
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14 f .so my best friend has had this boyfriend for almost 20 months now. and i know that its great and stuff and they are really great together but i dont see much of her anymore. last summer was so fun we hung out almost everyday and then this summer she was with her b/f. i only saw her 3 times. alot had been happening with me lately and she doesnt know any of it. i told her that i needed to talk and she said okay. but then everytime i asked her to hang out she said she was hanging out with her b/f. she doesnt even try to make plans with me. i dont know what to do. i feel like im losing my best friend. he wont always be there. and when she gets hurt, she may not have a best friend to help het through it. you have to balance your friends and your b/f. but how do i get her to see that? (link)
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you have to talk to her.
say something like, "I really want to hang out with you, and I was wondering if there was a time where we can plan to do something together. I havent seen you a lot lately and I really want to go somewhere or what=not"
just whatever you do, dont say anythng like "youre always with you boyfriend" that will probably make her mad.
just explain to her that you want to hang out.
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