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Okay, so this summer i went to a sleepaway camp for two months and i met my (current) boyfriend there. He lives in a different state then i do and in the beg. it was'nt hard at all to keep in touch and have a relationship with him, but now that school started we stopped talking as much as we did before (we now talk like once a day and maybe twice). But tonight i was at my house with my friends and we were talking online and he told me that he had to talk to me "about us" and then he quickly mentioned that it wasnt bad. so i called him after my friends left but he was busy with his friends so he hung up and called me back like an hour l8er and said "hey i'm really messed up right now so ill call you tomorrow bye" (i thought that that meant that he was drunk) so i hung up right away without syaing bye because i was kind of upset at him for ignoring me the whole night and i guess i was also kind of scared of what he might have to say to me. so i was just wondering what you guys think he might have to say to me and if you think our relationship could maybe be over?

thanks so much (link)
For now, wait.

If you can't bear that, then get in contact with him at an hour when he's sure to be stable and ready to talk. I'd reccomend either right after he gets home after school or at about 8:30 on a week-night.

However, I wouldn't worry too badly. If he said it's not anything bad, then he would have no reason to lie at that point.


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thanks a lot! you really helped!




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