Hello my name is Chrissie and a lot of people call me the latest Dear Abby. I give advice to anyone who needs it whether it be friends, family, or strangers. I've been giving advice on the internet for a little while now and just recently I've found this. So please feel free to ask me anything. I'm not just an advice columnist but I'm a friend :-).
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me and one of my guy friends have been friends for like, 4 years and everyone always says we should go out. we always laugh it off and say that we never would because were just friends but the more i think about it the more i kind of get what everyone is saying. we get along really well and our personalities to match up pretty good but i have that lame fear that if we go out that we wont be friends if it doesnt work. i dont have a thing for him, or much of one anyways but i could see myself with him. i want to try it out and date him but i dont know if hes thinking what i am and i dont know how to tell. were like best friends and everyone thinks we like each other or that were flirting or that were already going out. thanks soooo much (link)
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Hey. Well you say you and him get along really well right. Then I think it would probably work out great. I bet inside he really likes you too but you're both afraid to ask eachother (or at least he may be) for fear of rejection. I would deffinitely give it a try and if he says no that's okay don't let it ruin your friendship, he may still be embarressed or in shock :). If he says yes then that's great and if you fight it's okay you will get over it just like when you're friends. If he breaks up with you don't feel bad you can still be friends and if you feel you're going to break up with him just tell him you really want to be friends still but you don't want you going out to ruin your relationship. Who knows, maybe you'll get married? I hope this helped a little and please give me feedback on if this helped my friend :-).
Chrissie
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