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okay, i have a question. So i've been dating someone for 4 years now. i, no questions asked, love him to death right. He was my first in everything but i wasn't his first in bed. After all these years he won't tell me who he first slept with. If i really think about it really it makes me a bit mad. He says he wants to at least keep something to himself. What do you guys think i really think i have the right to know, it makes me mad that i don't know. I rate well. ;) (link)
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Do you want to know because you think it could be someone you know personally? I understand both sides of the situation, why he would rather not tell and why you are very curious, so it's a toughie. If it could be someone you know then I think he should tell you, because such relationship dynamics could change, and maybe they should change. If he assures you that it was no friend of yours and noone you could have ever really known, then I would just let it go.
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yeah he said it was no one that i knew but still i seem kind of bothered by it i rarely bring it up, but i think i might just drop it. thanks though
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