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Hi I am 15/f

Like typical teen girl, I have a boy problem. Lets say this guy's name is Conrad. I think I like him, I mean I always thought he was cute ever since last year but never really talked to him because

1. he is super shy
2. we never had a same class

so I just let it go, because he is not extremely cute. In fact my friends think I'm kind of weird that I like him because he's just not that type of a guy that girls go after. Which by the way are guys that I am attracted to a lot. Those guys who aren't good looking at all, to all other people, but whatever, because I think they are cute but getting back to the point.

So the 9th grade passed by, and then 10th grade started and I now have 2 classes with him. But we don't sit near each other, because the seating arrangement is in ABC order, so we sit far away from each other. So I kind of let that go too, but one day, I just happened to sit next to him at computer lab and we just kind of talked for a while, and now I say hi to him in the hall way and I talked to him more. But he is just so shy and I dont know what to do. I mean I dont want to scare the guy away by straight out asking him if he likes me or asking him out or anything. Also I am not sure if this is an infatuation, which I happen to have a lot, in fact all of my previous relationship was infatuation that never lasted longer than 2 weeks. So I dont know about that either.

I mean "Conrad" is a great guy. He's smart, he's polite and all that, and i happen to find him cute.

But I can't really see myself holding hands with him, hugging him, and etc...whole bf/gf stuff...

What do I do?

Pleaseeeeeee help

Okay, well, a lot of shy guys just need a little push. I'm not saying jump on him and start like kissing him, but you know, maybe talk to him more, this may sound super lame, but if you ever need to borrow like a pencil or something then you could go ask him the more you talk the easier it'll be to talk to him, if you know where his locker is you could stop by to say hey. If this works out for you, you could always ask him to plow around with you and your friends sometime so he gets more comfortable, then you can spend time with him without it being an offical date. If it keeps building from there I definitely say go for it. Especially if you're really into him, this doesn't sound like just some crush you have, I think you're really into him.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks sooo much!~
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