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Hi I am 15/f
Like typical teen girl, I have a boy problem. Lets say this guy's name is Conrad. I think I like him, I mean I always thought he was cute ever since last year but never really talked to him because
1. he is super shy
2. we never had a same class
so I just let it go, because he is not extremely cute. In fact my friends think I'm kind of weird that I like him because he's just not that type of a guy that girls go after. Which by the way are guys that I am attracted to a lot. Those guys who aren't good looking at all, to all other people, but whatever, because I think they are cute but getting back to the point.
So the 9th grade passed by, and then 10th grade started and I now have 2 classes with him. But we don't sit near each other, because the seating arrangement is in ABC order, so we sit far away from each other. So I kind of let that go too, but one day, I just happened to sit next to him at computer lab and we just kind of talked for a while, and now I say hi to him in the hall way and I talked to him more. But he is just so shy and I dont know what to do. I mean I dont want to scare the guy away by straight out asking him if he likes me or asking him out or anything. Also I am not sure if this is an infatuation, which I happen to have a lot, in fact all of my previous relationship was infatuation that never lasted longer than 2 weeks. So I dont know about that either.
I mean "Conrad" is a great guy. He's smart, he's polite and all that, and i happen to find him cute.
But I can't really see myself holding hands with him, hugging him, and etc...whole bf/gf stuff...
What do I do?
Pleaseeeeeee help
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ok first thing you want to do is to find out if you really like him now here are some signs that you may see if you like him
1.)thinking about him/her alot
2.)smile when you think/talk to him/her
3.)just like talking to him/her for no reason
4.)talk about him/her alot to your friends or someone
5.)are scared of him/her not likeing you
now those are all signs i see when i like a guy i dont know if they might be the same for you but they could be then once you know you like him a easy thing to do could be to write him secret admirer notes/letter/emails when and if you do this make sure you make it clear that you like him then after a while give him some hints about yourself but dont give it away see if he can figure it out if he cant then you will have to tell him and i can help you with that now if you you dont want to do this secret admirerer thing then just go up to him sometime and tell him you like him but when you do act kind of shy so he doesnt feel like the only one now you have to tell him you like him first cause he is shy when you tell him and are acting shy just go to say it like hey ummmm.. i need to tell and ask you something but it's kind of hard to ask ok well ok i like you and i dont mean to put you on the spot but i was wondering if maybe you liked me too then wait for the answer then ask him out and if you use this advice or need more just ask me and i woud love to hear how it all works out whether you use my advice or not and if you like the advice please tell others about me cause i can help
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Thank you soooo much! I am definetly going to use that line...the one about saying it in person but be shy about it a little...and definetly will do tell other people about you and ask you when i need more help !! but thanks soo much it really helped! Keep up the good work~
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