Nature's first green is gold
Her hardest hue to hold
Her early leafs a flower
But only so an hour
Then leaf subsides to leaf
Thus eden sank to grief
So dawn turns into day
Nothing gold can stay.
Gender: Female
Location: NY Baby
Age: 14
AIM: xEternalHeartx
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This girl named Leah lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school.
We used to be best friends sadly, until I kind of tried to keep my distance from her. The reason why I wanted to keep my distance from her is because she acted like total jerk to me for no reason (I'm not gonna list what all she did to me) and then went and cried to me telling her to forgive her. All of my friends were attacking me, so I forgave her and I really wish I didn't do that.
She's is an effing stalker and I'm not kidding. She copies EVERYTHING my friend and I do (Yeah, it's supossed to flattery. Well, it's driving me crazy) All she does is talk about my other friends and when I'm not around all she does is talk about ME behind MY back. She wrote my friend a note today and my friend showed it to me.
This is what it said:
You probably are wondering why I was upset this morning. (I talked to my friend who she wrote the note to and my friend said that she didn't even notice and plus she didn't really care. ) Well I was confused, annoyed, mad, and upset. Katie (Me) has a problem. Dayna (one of my other friends) yelling at me for copying you two didn't help either. I'm already upset enough and plus I'm on my period (I'm on mine too so wtf.) She wont even get within a bazillion feet of me (She's obsessed with me and my friend. I was a foot away from her today so I guess she's blind.)
God, she goes crying to her everytime she has some stupid problem with me and says all this crap about me.
ALL she does is talk about how she hates all of my friends. She started cussing at me when I tell her to stop and I stand up for them. She will sit there and talk and talk and every word she says is a lie. She has seriously changed so much since I first met her. I know she isn't going to go back to who she was. I honestly think she forgot who that actually IS!
She's been a jerk to me lately and I want her to leave me alone. I don't want to be her friend anymore and she can't get that through her head! I know this kind of sounds mean, but if I told you what all she's done to me you would know she's the one who is mean...not me.
I have her screen name if that helps.
How do I just slowly let our friendship fade or just plain out tell her I don't want to be friends with her anymore?
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Wow, who needs enimies when you have friends like that! It seems to me that you already have tried letting it slowly fade away, and that didn't work. I suggest that you confront her about all the horrible things she has done to you and tell her how you feel. Yeah I know it sounds corny but it's the only way. you need to tell her that what she's doing is bothering you and that you want her to stop. If she does then problem solved, but if she accuses you of bieng mean, or continues what she's doing you have to drop her. Trust me that you don't want someone like that around you. Either tell her face to face thatm it's over or call her on the phone. Do not send a not e or e-mail though it could be used against you later on. Most importantly I know that it sounds cold but if she comes back to you with another sob story you have to see through it. don't allow her to suck up to you and worm her way back in. Stand strong, it's the right thing.
Well I hope this helps!
Tell me if it doesn't.
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