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I get really shy around a lot of people. I hate it, because when i'm around a guy I really like I get shy. How do I become less shy. I hate it!!! I really need help. I hardly talk to people cuz i'm sooo shy. Someone please help,
And guys please tell me how I can talk to guys and not sound like an idiot. Lol. Like what should I say? I don't want to come off too strong or like be too shy, please help. Thanks a bunch!!

I was the exact same way, and it takes time to get rid of the shyness, but I know you can do it. First advice is join clubs, or go places you wouldn't normally go and meet people. Meet your freind's freinds and hang out with them. Just learn to become comfortable with yourself. Shyness stems from a lack of confidence where you feel the need to hide yourself from others. Gain some confidence, and you will see that your shyness will start to go away. Just be your complete and natural self around people.

With guys you like, of course you'll be a little shy, but jsut try to act like it's not a big deal. Guys love girls with confidence, so act like you have it, even if you feel like you don't. After awhile, you will realize talking to people and meeting people isn't so hard and you will lose the shyness.

Good luck!

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