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I love to give advice and help people. I never think any question is too stupid or small, even if it's been asked a million times. Honestly, it's better to ask than remain in the dark.

Some of my favorite quotes:

"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way more clearly."
-Brendan Francis


"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't."
-Erica Jong

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i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice]

It's everyone's personal choice when to lose their virginity, and usually teenagers do regret how they lost theirs. It's hard to change a friend's mind, i've tried many times. The best thing is to put them in the situation, or show them someone's personal story of regret. Ask them how they would deal with getting pregnant and make sure they know YES THEY CAN GET PREGNANT. Also tell them that it should be special. Changing one's mind is hard, but it's good that you are looking out for your friends.

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(Rating: 5) thank you! do you know of anyone that i can talk to personally that has lost their virginity and regret it? so i can introduce my friends to that person? email me at xoxmichh@aim.com please & thank you
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