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Q: i'm 13, i don't plan on losing my virginity ANYTIME SOON, i'm going to keep it until i'm married. Most of my friends aren't virgins [ages; 13-16] and they don't regret it, but i know in the future they will . but can you guys just give me an amazing reason on why being a virgin is a precious thing and that giving up your body to some guy that just wants to get in and out makes you seem like a hoe. i really need good reasons so that when the other 1/4 of my friends are going to have a sex i can give them great reasons on why not to [other than STD's and all stuff i need other advice]
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Well I am 15 and I lost my virginity at 13 at the time no I didn't regret it but yes I do very much now so I know exactly what you are asking. To people being a virgin can be a very precious thing and to some it is no big deal to me at the time it was no big deal but now I realize it is something you should really hold on to as long as you can. The best reason to me why I think being a virgin is and was a very precious thing is that when you are married and you are a virgin and so is your partner you can have that amazing feeling of being proud and loved because you can feel like that person waited for me and feel glad you waited for them. But when you are married and you are not a virgin and your partner is you may feel bad because they waited for you but you couldn't wait for them. After you lose your virginity you start to think and realize these things and then wonder how great and proud of yourself you could've been also able to say I have the will power to wait for my true love. I really thought and wished I had had that strength so I to could be proud of myself instead I feeling ashamed and weak. Honestly to some people it may mean different things but to everyone it should be something that is cherished and given to the right person at the right time.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at skipedabeat@yahoo.com)
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thanks! you helped a lot! if you don't mind me asking, what situation were you in that you lost your virginity? email the answer at xoxmichh@aim.com if you'd like.
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I am cooky crazy and I love to party and have fun. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I am kinda short. When I get older I hope to become a therapist so I can give everyone advice because that is what I love to do. I am in the 10th grade. Sometimes I can be real jealous about dumb things. I give great advice. And I even can say dumb things that make no sense. But over all I am a great person, advice giver, and friend. If you don't like me then good for you but I love me
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Illinois Occupation: School Age: 15 Yahoo: Member Since: March 10, 2006 Answers: 78 Last Update: September 2, 2006 Visitors: 7822
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