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"People who ask our advice almost never take it. Yet we should never refuse to give it, upon request, for it often helps us to see our own way more clearly."
-Brendan Francis


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-Erica Jong

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Ohhkay. To make a long story short..I am realy nice to about anyone.. exept if i hear you talk about me.. then i realy just talk to you about it. Anyways.. Well almost a year ago a girl started talking about to me so i asked her to stop/ asked what was up .. and i thuoght that was the end of it.. then she started saying nasty rummers. and one of them was that i had a hairy back.. of that of that the nickname "silverback" started.. now EVREY POPULAR kid and some non-popular ones call me it. .. well anyways. lately ive been told i was fat. and i dont want to eat now.. like ever again. and yea i can probaly stand to lose 20..30 pounds as you can tell from this - ( www.myspace.com/meg_92 ) but anyways.. i am about to go anteresic and idk wat to do .. like i REALY want to loose A LOT of weight and FAST and idk any othe way how.. dont tell me its not healthy to loose a lot of weight fast. i just want to do it.. no its not healthy but i NEED/WANT to! Please give me tips/ideas!

14/f

Yes it's not healthy, and I'm glad you realize that. Honestly, based on the pic (altho I couldn't see the rest since it's private), you don't look fat at all. There is no way you can lose that much weight in a short amount of time, and starving yourself should not be an option.

Honestly, it sounds more like these people are jealous of you, and I don't think you should try to change yourself in an unhealthy way so they'll stop the rumors, cause the fact is they WONT stop spreading things about you. They'll just find something else, trust me I've been in the same situation.

If you want to lose weight, eat healthy and good portions and excercise. It is the ONLY way, trust me I've tried everything else. Go bike riding, dance around in your room, do yoga. You'll see results.

Honestly, at your age I felt the same way, but just have confidence and try to ignore the rumors. When they see you're not bothered by it and are comfortable with yourself, they will stop!

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