HEY EVERYONE, I'M KAT!
and i'm here to help :)
i love to give advice, and i've been told that i give some good advice, aswell.
i'm very dedicated once i get involved in someone's problems, and i'll probably make sure you're okay, and that my answer has been sufficent.
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i'm a huge my chemical romance fan, and i know pretty much everything about them; so if you have a question on them, i'm here. go for it. ;)
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I never feel like my best friend likes me as much as I like her. We live in different towns and weve been having so much fun this summer..but then her other best friend came back from vacation and now shes going to be hanging out with her the whole rest of the summer. Im really sad because shes only known her new best friend for a few months and Ive known her for 6 years and I feel jealous & forgotten. She always writes xanga entries about the other friend and says how much she LOVES her and puts her in her profile and she barely says anything about me.. I dont know I feel like Im losing her. Her xanga said shes hanging out with the girl next weekend and we had plans for then. Im so sad. What do i do?? I cant talk to her, she has the friend over and I dont want to start drama/be jealous and stuff. Help??? (link)
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Unfourtunately, you cannot control what new friends your friend finds. I myself am personally going through this problem, too, but the advice I would give you is to just plain ol' ignore all of that. It may not seem to easy, btu just try to act as if the other person didnt' exist.
Maybe try making some new friends, too. Don't do this to make her jealous, though, never try to push your frieends away, because that just causes the both of you to grow apart, and causes more problems.
TRy to hang out as much as possible, even in different towns, and if you cannot hang out, use the phone often. It may seem hard with different towns, but, it can be overcomed, believe me, and I say this from experiance!!!
Please, feel free to write me if you need anything else at all.
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thanks SO much..seriously you are awesome :]
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