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Q: My boyfriend is 18, he is out of school, has a GED and a job. I'm 14, in the 9th grade. All of my friends say that he is too old and that I'm "turning into a whore". He says he loves me and that he only wants me to be happy. Hes really sweet and I dont see what the problem is. My mom knows about the age difference, and she really hasnt said if she was ok with it or not. Do you think its ok? Also, I really love him and he says he loves me, is it possible to find your "true love" at 14?

ok...SO this may sound a little crazy, but I am 13 and I am dating someone 11...WE are madly in love so I could understand the loving part. yet why would he want someone 4yrs younger? That is still a freaky question...after you get a bit older he might just try to wrestle sex outa you...so WATCH OUT!!! He may say he loves you and he may but he also might be up to something. But if you love him and he loves you, Then it shouldn't make any difference how old you are...The person I love kiss almost everynight before we go off to our separate houses but we see each other everyday..

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Thanks, I'm glad to know we're not the only ones in that type of situation. Thanks, you really helped me.

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