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Q: my friend slept over at my house, and we both slept in my room. i have a computer in my room, and i told her that she could go on my computer if she woke up before me, which she did. when i woke up, i was still in bed and i just opened my eyes, but i didnt move or anything. i could see from where i was on my bed that she was going through my computer and looking at all of my things. i could see that she was looking through one of my word documents. then when i said something, i sounded tired and she closed the document immediately and i could see she was hoping that i hadn't seen her looking through my things. i know that i shouldve said something but i didnt, and i completely regret that now, because it shocked me that she would do something like that.

so my question is...should i just try to forget about this happening? and also, is it just me or is it wrong for someone to look around someone elses computer without permission, even if they are(somewhat) a good friend?

thx a lot.
ok, first of all that is not right even if she is a really good friend. i think you should confont her and say, " i saw you looking through my word documents, and i was just wondering why you didn't want me to know and why you did without asking me first?" i know i would be upset if my friend was looking through my word documents without my permission, i wouldn't care if she looked if she asked me that. you could also say something like that?
hope i helped ♥

thx a bunch!

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