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Well today i wen't to my friends house.I wen't to keep my best friend company because our friend(the owners house) was in her room with a guy and she called me telling me she felt uncomftrable.So when i got there like 15 minutes later the guy left and my friend came out the room. When we were all kicking it outside they started smelling their hands talking about they smelled like weed!I was so dissapointed in my best friend because it had been so long since we hung out together and i didint know she had started smoking that stuff!So i told her "when did you start"and she said "we tried it last week" and i said "i thought u were never gonna do it again"and she stood quiet 4 a while and promised this was the last time.Then when we were in the back they took out the pipe and started smoking it and asked me to do it.I said i didint want to and they just looked at me like saying wtf!But the truth is i know i should trust her but i know shes gonna try it again.I don't want her to start doing it alot because shes barely 14 but idk wut to do so she won't!wut would you do?? (link)
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Tough love seems like it would work in this situation. Tell her that if she dosen't stop this, you'll have to tell a parent. It might not seem like a good plan now, because it will most likely cause her to get mad at you but it's for her well being.
Hopefully she'll listen to your warning, but if not, tell a parent, because she cant' go on thinking it's okay because she wont get caught, because she probably will and that will result in even more trouble.
Tell her how much you worry about her, and how big of a problem you really see this as.
Good luck with everything, and I really, truely hope this helps, because this is something I hate to see. Please, feel free to message me with ANYTHING you might need!!
By the way, I'd just like to say great job on not smoking it yourself. It takes courage to stand up to that!!
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