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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

well good for you for not wanting to loose your birginity at such a young age, its always best to wait untill your ready. I waited and am very glad. The first time does hurt alot and the next few times after are a lil painfull, but it gets ALOT better, so dont worry adn dont stress out about it. Its best to wait because when your relaxed and comfortable it does hurt less and everything is better. The best advice is to just wait untill you are ready and dont let any one make you do anything that your not comfortable with

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