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hey,i'm Nicole. I'm 23 years young. I'm from New York...i do the best i can on giving advice on this site.drop one in my inbox n i'll get to it as soon as i can.i like spending time with friends, shopping,and playing soccer. my interests are music, singing and dancing.

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my best friends birthday is tomorrow [8/11] and shes having a pool party. im going, but theres going to be a lot of people there [boys too] and im embarrassed of going in the pool since im 14&wear a one piece. im just not comfortable in a 2 piece. I tried asking my friend to not make me go in the pool but she says I have to. Plus on top of that i look absolutley HIDEOUS in a bathing suit. My thighs are just...awful. Im a very shy person and i know ill be embarrassed beyond what i could imagine, since im not exactly skinny. what should I do?
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well. i think that you should wear a 2 piece, but wear a tank top with it. it'll look cute and no one is going to say anything. plus, you can always go into the pool for a while to please your friend, and then get out and talk to people that arent in the pool and just wear your normal clothes. that way you can please your friend and not have to be in the pool all day.

hope i helped!!

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(Rating: 5) k thanks ill try that :]
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