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i have a problem. during the first meeting of my photography club,my friends and i sat at the second row and liked it.during the second meeting,there are these girls who were at the third row who asked us to move forward to the first row so that their friends could sit at the seconnd row.we moved because we only thought it would be temporary arrangement.but i was wrong.the next meeting,my friends and i sat on the second row for dibs.but those girls came back and asked us once again to move forward.but my friends and i are really uncomfortable in front.but we moved anyway and i saw my friends were annoyed.i wanna do something--but what? and how can i stand up to them without saying something mean? or should i just let them push-over us for nth times???

please help...thanks in advance

♥c0urTneY

Just tell them that your sorry but you don't like sitting in the front row. Make sure your friends are all on the same page and know you are going to do this, if the other girls become snarky simply tell them that you would be willing to comprimse by sitting in the 3rd row so they can still sit together? If you don't like the 3rd row then I would remain firm about the 2nd row, not move after being polite and then the week after make sure you guys are at least 10 minutes earlier so that the other girls don't get there first.

Hope this helps

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