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i have this friend and we are really close shes one of my bestfriends and i have a feeling that she might be racist against caucasian people because like all of her friends are black and she like only has one caucasian friend and everything to her has to be black and it really bothers me im colored myself and i have friends of all different racis and when someonelse is another race or color i dont notice it until she brings up the color or race that they are and it really buggs me because it kinda insults me because i am a little bit caucasian and my family is mixed of different colors and i asked my friend if she was racist and she said no and got mad that i asked that and she also doesnt like black and white couples she thinks theres something wrong with that but honestly i dont see anything wrong with it and i really dont know what else to do she says she's not but i think that she might be a little bit racist but not a whole lot so what should i do because i dont wont to have a friend like that and i also dont want to stop being friends wit her


As sad as it is to say, even in the 21st century racism is still common in the United States. But you shouldn't stop being friends with this girl just because you have a different belief than her. My parents are slightly racist, not exactly to the extent of your friend, but they believe a certain race of people are rude. I get into many arguments with them about this topic, but I can't seem to change their opinions. Despite this, I still love them. Keep being friends with your friend. If she brings up that she sees something wrong with black and white couples again, politely ask her not to talk about that subject again.

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