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i work with this girl that is leaving for college in about 2 weeks. Shes been working in this store for a year and a half. She doesnt do anything that actually helps the store out because she leaves it for everyone else to.

Im a senior and im staying at my job. Shes telling me and everyone else that after college lets out for the summer next year she is coming back and they are hiring her back and shes going to be gettting a promotion.

Now i really dont think she deserves to come back and get a job right away nor a promotion.

What can i do to make sure this girl does not get her job back? Or should i should let it go?

You will find in pretty much every single job you have there is one person who does nothing and gets rewarded for it. I wouldn't worry about her coming back next summer or getting a promotion she could be all talk and even if she is telling the truth alot can and does happen in a year. Eventually she will screw up and get caught, you pointing out that she is a lazy useless person will only make you look like you are jealous (which your not).

It sucks but these people self destruct sooner or later.

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