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Hey. I'm Marta. I give advice on questions I feel I can actually be helpful too. I don't like to just randomly pick questions and than give random advice. I actually look for a question that I can actually benfit the person. haha. yeah so i love having fun and playing basketball.
Member Since: May 4, 2006
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Last Update: August 26, 2006
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i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
Well If you really want to go, this is what I did.
I wore a one peice, with a cute pair of shorts.
If you can get swimming shorts, that'd be better.
But just do that.
I did it all the time when my friend invited me over to swim.
Everyone is self consious.
And if you really don't want to go, get one of your close friends to go to the movies.
Or just rent movies get a ton of blankets and just spend the night watching movies.
I really hope it works out for you.
These things are tough.


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thanks a bunch!




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