Gender: Female
Age: 17
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i dont know if i put this under the right category or not..but..my friend from school is having a little going away party for her..and theres gonna be guys and stuff and i just got the invite and it says, "COME READY TO SWIM" and the last party we had for the end of the year party..i didnt go to becuz i was self concious..now im 115 pounds and im 5'3 but i still feel like im wide and from the front i have all that lower tummy fat..and like everyone of my friends are skinnier than me and i just cant go to swimming parties cuz im always so down on myself! i dont know what to do! all answers are appreciated! thanks! (link)
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I am 5'3" and exactly 115 pounds too, so I'm sure I can help you!
I wear a size 0 in jeans, and I'm guessing since you are about the same body type as me that that's about what you wear.
Trust me.... THIS ISNT FAT!! and EVERYONE has a little bit of lower tummy fat, we are born with it it's completely normal.
Don't miss out on any of the fun all because of being self conscious. In my experience, other people are only gonna make fun of you if you arent confident in the first place. If you are confident about yourself then everyoen else is gonna look at you in a different light, trust me!
I mean, obviously these people liek you if you keep getting invited to parties with them!
And if any of those guys say anything to you about your weight like they said to your friend, just fire one right back at them.
Maybe try repyling with a "Hey how old are you? 12??" or a "Hey how many girls could you get? 0??"
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