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i absolutely can't speak to my mother about this because all she does is try to use reverse phsycology on me or just tells me that i'm talking stupididies and i'm not! i really do feel this way and it's bugging me so much and there's nothing i can do to make myself stop feeling like this. i've tried! maybe this information will help a little:
i've always been very mature for my age. i was 9 when i got my period. so, i feel like i've grown up to fast and now is when it is just catching up to me. when i was like 9, i guess the best way to explain it is that i was like a 12 year old stuck in at 9 years old. i don't know how to explain it. it's jut kind of weird. so, i don't really know what kids do at 9. but, when i was 9, i would spend friday night's watching television while doing my hair and nails!
when i turned 12, the same thing happned. i was like 14 or 15 stuck at 12. i wanted to go out every weekend and party. so, not because i had to or anything, just because i didn't have anything better to do, i was asleep pretty early and i would lie there in my bed super mad because i wished that i was at party. i started going to parties like later being 12, like when i started jr. high but this was before the dances
then when the dances did start, i loved them. i would get so exited about every party i went to. and when i turned like 13, i would go to parties whenever i had the chance. i loved to get ready for parties and do my hair/makeup. i would just get so exited about it
now, i'm 15/f. and for some reason, i feel like i've grown up too fast. i'm not even interested in parties anymore. i dismiss invitatioins when they come in the mail but i still go because my mom makes me go. but, i don't want to be there yet! i want to be interested in parites. i want to get exited about it. i want to do my make-up and feel interested in it and all that stuff. but, i can't control it
for those of you that read this i thank you and i hope that you can give me some advice on what to do about this situation! ty again!!!!
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aw.
well, this is really corny and might be useless advice.
but I would start doing all the things I missed out on as a kid.
Maybe have a sleepover with some close friends and talk to them about it. Skip the next couple of parties. maybe try yoga, because it helps you clear your mind.
I've never been in that position, but I can tell it bothers you. so, I hope you figure something out.
good luck.
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thank you so much. that was great advice :)
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