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Q: I have ben hurt many times by guys. Too many times! I always seem to fall for the wrong type, and I really mean the WRONG type! They all seem great at first but then the truth comes out. My ex-boyfriends have either been phycos, nymphos, mythomaniacs, cheaters or just plain assholes!! I have lost count on how many night I have fallen asleep crying! I thought I had given up on boyfriends and then my present boyfriend came along and seems really nice and all. Sure, he cheated on me once in the begining of out relationship but that's normal for me now, I guess that's just a thing that guys do so I have him a second chance.
So now we are together and I can't seem to be happy when I'm with him!! I'm just waiting for when he is going to hurt me and how he's going to do it!

When ever I try to picture our relationship in the furutre I see me crying over him because he hurt me really bad somehow....

I have seriously no romance in me anymore! My previous boyfriends have crushed that! They have made me into a depressing person. I used to me known as the "really happy and fun girl" but that was a looooong time ago!

I try, I really try to be happy with my present boyfriend, he is nice and all but I can't seem to get there. What is wrong with me?!?!
They have crushed my spitit, my soul and a few times my will to live :'(

please help!!

Hey there!
Well, first I think you need to break up with him. Once a cheater always a cheater. And you deserve wayyyy better than cheaters and pychos! I think you need a break from boys, so i think you should go do something with your best girl frined(s) just to forget about everything and get that fun loving girl back! And you need to be more picky about the guys you go out with! And there's absoulutely nothing wrong with you! You do NOT need to let boys rule your life, they're not that fantastic. I've cried over a few guys myself, but I always got back on my feet, so can you! =] Good luck!

♥Paige

Rating: 5

I could try taking a break. It's just that I feel so helpless and lonley without a boyfriend. I'm so not an independant woman! But it would be nice to be so that break thing might not me such a bad idea...

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Hey everyone! My name is Paige and I'm 13 years old. I love to play volleyball, My team and I were regional champions. My teams name was the ECJVC Golddiggers. I also played for my school, the AGC Raiders, who are the Pitt County Champs. I am also a very talented person. Volleyball ofcourse, I play the viola ((it's a bit bigger than a violin)) and this upcoming year I get to go to All-State. I have been to Florida to play and I'm returning this year to play again. I'm also a very smart girl. I have a average over a 95 percential and I'm straight A's. I love giving advice, my friend's always come to me to ask me questions and to complain, so I can pretty much answer anything just write me and I'll promise to get to you! If you have any questions whatsoever, I'm your girl!

♥Paige