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What do I do if my friend's boyfriend is starting to get physically abusive towards her? Like he always "play" hits her but he goes out of control and keeps "playing" even though she's saying stop. The other day she told me he hit her for real. She barely did anything and he hit her on her face and arm. I personally want to kill him. But what can I tell her? Because she really loves him. That's why she has stayed with him that long. Everytime she calls me she always has something to say about something that he did and tonight when she called me it really made me sad/mad for her. So someone please give me some tips on what to say to her or do for her... Thanks =/ (link)
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I don't think you are taking this too hard. It is obvious that you care about your friend a lot, and that is a great thing for someone to have. You should sit her down and tell her everything that you feel about her situation. But what you shouldnt do, is get mad or question her too much about why shes still with him or why she hasnt done anything. Dont do anything to condem her for it (which im sure you probably wouldnt purposely) because she will shut herself off from you and not tell you when/if he hits her again. Just be the best friend you can and try to help her see that its not right for him to be that way towards her.
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