I am a Minister / Prophetess , Spiritual Advisor & Christian Counselor . My Advice Column is based on Relationships , Christian issues, Youth / Teen issues , World News and as the Founder of a prison ministry I give advice to families , spouses and friends of the incarcerated using biblical principals as the foundation to provide a Word of Wisdom , a Word of Knowledge, a Word of Prophesy
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i have this guy i been with for 8 months and he broke up with me and i gave him a letter begging him to take me back telling him i love him and i need him and i cant live without him.. and he just read it and ripped it up...and i left crying and he cursed and yelled at me..when i came back i sat by myself and cried for like 2 hours and he was all over my friends hugging them and stuff like that and i got so uppset and he didnt even care..this happend like 20 minutes ago and he isnt calling ...he never calls when we break up...i always call and beg for him back what should i do to make him want me back?
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Your story remind me of my own when I was in high school with a guy I loved and he broke my heart over and over and he would humiliate me in front of people the same way this person is doing you , he humiliated me so much until everyone at school knew it and many saw it. I feel your hurt
He is treating you like this because he is arrogant and immature and with these two mix together is like putting a match to gasoline
The more you show him you care the more he blow up, sweetie I know it hurts but I encourage you to flip the script on him; stop calling him,and when you see him if he is right in your face out of common courtesy smile ,speak and keep going but do not hold a conversation ; you have to flip the script because he is not respecting your kindness or your love for him, remember those two things I mention, while those things are going on he is going to keep hurting you ; so this is why it is imperative for you to flip the script.
The guy I was telling you about was just like him and then he got worse, the more I showed I cared the worse he got, the fact that you care for him is not wrong , there is nothing wrong with you for there is nothing greater than love for God is love however the problem is his arrogance and immaturity .
Also I question your friends perspective because they would not let him hang around them knowing he is dissing you like this.
I do not know you and have never saw you however I am not just an Advice Columnist but I am also a Minister & Spiritual Advisor; I encourage you to draw strength from the fact that you have the ability to love and not just to love but the ability to love someone unloveable that power .
If you follow the advice by flipping the script you will see a difference, he already knows how you feel, he already know how much you care; I encourage you to use this time away from him to learn how to love yourself; use this time to discover all your attributes, discover and rediscover your inner and outer beauty, I am encouraged as a messenger of God to give you this powerful truth & secret; you have chosen the better part by choosing to love , he have chosen to be unloveable , and what makes this so powerful is he needs you in his life more then you need him because you have love and he do not but the reason that he doesn't realize it is because you are chasing him , you have to step back for him to see it, he is just using your friends as a smoke screen to appear happy; I do not know if you have a relationship with God, but I will tell you this God is gonna heal your heart and show you how beautiful you are .
By the way the it was only after I stop chasing my high school sweet heart I saw a change, we broke up before I graduated I am a year older than him, we got back together a little bit after school and was together for awhile; we kept breaking up and getting back together; the last break up we had he got in some trouble and now he is doing along time in prison however he has contact me and ask me to forgive him for the way he treated me when we were in high school , and of course I forgave him, after all I am a Minister / Spiritual Advisor / Advice Columnist. and I say all this to say , God will turn your pain into power and use it to help others even the one who has hurt you; just two weeks ago this same person asked me to help him by formatting a letter to send it to a legal organization that help people whose incarceration is unconstitutional ; yes I formatted the letter and sent it to organization and they will be in contact with him shortly .
Be encourage
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God Bless You,
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you have amazing advice thank you so much god bless you too
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