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I'm 42 years old, married ( for the 3rd time) and have 1 son and 2 stepdaughters. I live in Kentucky. I love to help people and give advice though I don't claim to be an expert I will always be honest and upfront and relay what I think is best in any situation.
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Location: kentucky
Age: 42
Member Since: July 25, 2006
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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends.
No honey, you are not the selfish one here. You are thinking of the welfare of your baby as you should be. It sounds to me like your bf has some growing up to do and fast! The problem is this could be time consuming so while he is "growing up" you should do what ever is best for you and baby.I think being close to family is a good idea. At least you would have a support system there where as now you have none. So go be with your family. If he is ready to be a father to this child then he will follow and if not then so be it. his loss.
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thanks! perfect advice...im going to use it too... :)
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