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Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends. (link)
ok me dear he is being very rude if he loves you and wants the baby to grow up in an environment were it wont be in hospital hooked up to respirators ebcause it devolpped asthma from the mildeau he should move down south. There is no way you are being is elfish and you should move down there with or without him. You are endangering yourslef and the baby by living in that kind of place and he isnt doing much good for himself either. He is being very selfish. If he loves you when he sees your serious that you'll move he'll pack up and go with you.


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thank you!!! just what im hoping to hear!!! :)




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