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I have had a crush on a guy from the first day i met him. me and him were pretty good friends we hung out on the weekends and at recess at school but this was about in 1st grade and Im now in 10th grade. we have stayed close through the years but as you know when u get older you split apart. Well things have changed when I got into 5 grade are parents got married. so now he is my stepbro and I cant get over my crush towards him at all. Its weird because everyone knows I like him and says its wrong but within the last yr. things have changed between us we have gotten more sexual and Im realizing I want out of all of this. so how do I get out of these feelings?

... First of all my person opinion is that there is nothing wrong with liking him or even going out with him. He is NOT blood so it doesnt matter. You liked him before before your guys parents got married so why all of a sudden should you change your feelings. Yes , your situation is rare. But that doesnt matter. Your dad/mom/ fell in love and got married with his dad/mom. So what? then you can fall in love with him. i dont think nothing is wrong with that exspeacilly if he doesnt have a problem with it either. so you want out of it ? ok. here's my advise.


Just tell him how you feel. Atleast by telling him how you feel will help you to get out of it alittle. and if you really want out of it put your mind to it. Find another boyfriend and that will take your mind off him. I know it might be hard to get over him, no one ever said you had to forget about him. It's not wrong to love him. Try to stay away from him [ not as much as possible ] but being around him 24/7 wont help. And if he doesnt exept how you feel and that you want things to change then stay away from him alot. Hopefully he will though. There is a answer to everything.


Hope i helped.
&&Heart's;;kayla

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much im glad someone thinks my situation isnt wrong
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