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My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
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Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
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Member Since: May 20, 2006
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Last Update: October 25, 2011
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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--

So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help! (link)
Men are great, you cant live with them, but you cant live without him, this one you can live without. I am not saying every man is this way, just some men want to kiss you, but not do anything to them, because he might be using you. i am really sorry i had to be this way, but its just not right for a guy to be violent and hurt you, you may still love him, and he may still love you, dont forgive him, he will do it again and again and again and then trap you and say he loves you and makes you feel he is truly sorry, but he probly doesnt mean it...you deserve better, one who wont be violent and ... will like you to touch him lol please you may love him, but all of that will go away when you find a guy who treats you better.


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