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I really dread my grandparents dying. Practically every other night i cry myself to sleep because i am afraid that we will get a call the next morning saying one of my grandparents is gone. (grandparents on my mom's side the most) I see them every week, i have been seeing them a lot recently, and we are very close. I try to think about the happy times, and have fun while i am with them. I still can't keep the thoughts out of my head. Is this ok, just a girl that doesn't want to lose someone she really loves, or should i try and not be so close? i really don't want to pull apart from them. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
Its normal to be scared for someone you love, but crying yourself to sleep is not healthy. If your grandparents are doing fine, there's no reason to worry right now. Just spend time with them and cherish the moments you have together. They may live past 100, you never know. On the other hand, if your grandparents are very sick, then I can't say crying is normal, but it can be expected. If they've been living for a long time with their sickness, there's no reason to worry, but if their sickness is new or getting worse, you do have a reason to be sad. Just keep spending time with them and let them know that you love them.
No matter what catagory your grandparents fit into, there is no time when you should stop being close to them. Just don't worry as much. Take things as they come, and you should be fine.
(Rating: 5) thanks. my grandpa does have diabetes, but he manages it...my grandma may have skin cancer. I know thats not the worst a person could have.....she got sunburns a LOT as a kid.