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Q: My 17 year old sister is gone to bootcamp. She wont get out till January 17th 2007. I'm only allowed to see her 2 times between now and then. She is also allowed 1 phone call a week for a max of 5 minutes. Oh My God I'm so freakin' sad cuz we were so close and the day she left, when it came time to tell me bye, she went hysterical crying, that didnt make it any easier when I was trying with everything I had to suck it up and not cry. We were told to write her as much as possible but after 3 letters, I'm getting stumped, Ive already went on and on about how proud I was of her and told her things that were going on in my life, but I'm not that interesting lol so there's only so much I can say about that. I need help on topics to talk about in the letters, or what to discuss to keep her in on the latest news and stuff (She lovesssss music) I dunno... Any Ideas are much appreciated and I will certainly rate and give feedback for your time.
hello,
i use to have the same problem but now i just talk about anything. Here is some stuff you can talk about.
talk about home life, talk about your friends, ask her how she is doing and whate she is doing, tell her about the weather, tell her about the events going on in your town, talk to her about something new you experienced, how about a new song on the radio you think she would like, or talk about memories and how much you miss her, you could talk about a new outfit you bought or a new haircut you got, the skys the limit. Heck you could even write her a song about how much you love her since she loves music so much. i hope this helps out.

Love,
Brittni

Thanks bunches!

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