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yea im kinda self conscious about the way i look and i look down on myself a lot like i dont only think i know that im ugly and sometimes it bothers me when my friends are like ur ugly and i just laugh it off or just say i know i dont know if they are serious or just joking with me but i dont know.. but like when i say mom im ugly shes like no your not your beautiful i know she doesnt mean it she just says that because shes my mom.. but ya whatever thats why im very careless of my looks like i dont really know what to do so that i wont look down on myself so much and not to think about how ugly i am thats why i dont really care about my appearance n e more is that a bad thing??
Alright, let's get something straight: You ARE beautiful, no matter what anyone tells you. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and I can guaruntee you that someone out there thinks you're one of the most beautiful people on earth. Never look down on yourself. When you're feeling self-conscious, remind yourself of all of your good qualities.
Yes, you should care about your appearance. There is a difference between feeling good about who you are right now and wanting to improve upon yourself to make you look even better. Don't like your eyes? Experiment one day and go out to the mall with a little mascara and eye shadow. Hate your complextion? Try some cover-up or foundation. Whatever you do, be sure to stay true to the real you and accept yourself the way you are.
As to your "friends" calling you ugly... no friend of mine would call me ugly. If you can't tell if they are kidding or not, they've definitely crossed the line. If you don't listen to anything else I say, be sure to listen to this: Get new friends. Nobody needs people dissing them, especially the people they care about most.
(Rating: 5) thanks the first part made me feel a lot better :).. but i wont touch makeup but thank u soo much :)