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Okay so I'm a girl and i'm 14. I like this guy he's 14 as well. He's been flirting with me alot, he thinks i'm gorgeous, hot, he says noone can resist me and such. A friend of mine asked him if he was gonna ask me out cuz he was going to a while ago but he had a girlfriend. He said that I'm a cool girl and he wants to but he's afraid cuz of how his relationships have beeng going. So, I want to ask him out. The problem is that one of my best friends likes him too. It feels like if I ask him it'll be betraying her. But if he asks me it'd be different since i didn't pursue it even though I knew she liked him. Plus, she's laid back and i'm sure she wouldn't really mind if this guy and i go out.
My question is: Should I ask him out? Or wait for him? (link)
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Sweetie, this guy you are talking about is his own person. You and your best friend should not treat him like property; I think that if you like him and he likes you, there is no reason why you should not pursue the relationship. You'll realize this once you get a little older. Its a little sad that your friend likes him too, its great that you had a concern about your friend, but neither of you can decide who he goes out with. If you ask me, I think the guy is fair game. I wish I had two hotties fighting over me. lol
I hope I helped.
William
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Thanks, that really helps. I think if we do hookup my friend would be okay with it I was just wondering. and i totally agree he's not property.
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