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ok so i just started going out w/ this guy but i REALLY like him and we talk every night unti like 2 in the morning on the phone. so i always have the urge to say i love you... but i know htat i don't. but i don't want to say "I like you" because that doesn't sound quite right and he already knows that. what is an alternative to saying " i love you" to someone you REALLY like but don't exactly love yet. cuz i still want to mean what i say. (link)
Babe,

You just started going out with this guy. If you don't love him, than dont say it! And if you do love him, then he's going to think youre psycho since you guys just started dating. I was with a girl for a while, and jokingly one night after talking for some odd 4 long hours, As I was saying bye,I said "I care about you." There is nothing wrong with CARING, right? "I care about you" doesnt carry all the weight and history an "I love you" does. You are just letting him know that you are developing feelings for him, not that you are crazyly obsessed. I would tell him "I care about you" when saying "good bye." Also, after telling my girl that, she started saying it back, next thing you know SHE confessed her love for me.

Good luck.

William


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thank you. i really appreciate the advice. i think i will try that because you are right... the whole reason i don't wanna say that is because 1. it's not true 2. that's way too soon! but i just do wanna let him know i really like him. thank you




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