I went out with this one guy for like, a year and a half, and never even kissed him. I just always thought of him as a.."oh were dating, but i dont want to "date him", kinda thing. So anyway, just a couple days ago, he called me up, and asked me to go out with him. (just to let you know, i dated him like, 4 years ago) Anyway, so i guess he still liked me, but i still dont think of him like that. I kinda said yes to the date, only cause i felt bad for him, but then i had to cancel.
How can i avoid things like this in the future? I really dont like him at all like that, and would rather remain friends.
Ok, sounds like you didnt really like this guy very much. And if he asked you out, he probably thought he had some thought in his mind that you still liked him too. Have you been flirting with him? Maybe he thought you were trying to give him signals? If you didnt like him, you shouldn't have said yes. That probably just gave him un-nessary hopes. To avoid this situation later on, be 100% positive that you are sending out friend vibes only. Sound good? Hope I helped :]
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